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Majke i očevi često se osjećaju nesigurno i anksiozno kada je u pitanju odgoj djece. U prošlim vremenima odgovore na pitanja o tome kako treba odgajati djecu često su davale bake i drugi članovi iz te generacije. U današnje su vrijeme roditelji uglavnom usmjereni na specijaliste iz područja psiholog...
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Majke i očevi često se osjećaju nesigurno i anksiozno kada je u pitanju odgoj djece. U prošlim vremenima odgovore na pitanja o tome kako treba odgajati djecu često su davale bake i drugi članovi iz te generacije. U današnje su vrijeme roditelji uglavnom usmjereni na specijaliste iz područja psihologije i medicine. Ljudi često imaju romantiziranu i idealiziranu sliku o majčinstvu koja u majkama proizvodi nepotrebnu anksioznost i distres. U današnje vrijeme od očeva se očekuju puno veća angažiranost u odgoju djece. Egalitarna etika odnosi se na kulturalno vjerovanje da očevi i majke trebaju biti jednako odgovorni za svoju djecu. Postoje različiti roditeljski stilovi i strategije kao što su to autoritativni, indiferentni, popustljivi i autoritarni. Svaki od ovih stilova roditeljstva na drugačiji način utječe na razvoj ličnosti djeteta. U odgoju djece dobro je da roditelji uzimaju u obzir djetetovu razvojnu spremnost, da su nagrade puno efikasnije od kazne, da se u razgovoru nikoga ne etiketira ružnim riječima, a pogotovo ne djecu jer je to vrlo destruktivno za njihovu sliku o sebi, da obiteljska pravila budu jasna i konstantna, da komunikacija bude otvorena i da se djeci dopušta da sami biraju sve do razine kada bi ih vlastiti izbor mogao fizički ili psihički ugroziti. Mitovi o roditeljstvu koji mogu reducirati prirodni roditeljski način govore, primjerice, o tome da je odgajanje djece zabavno, da će djeca ispasti dobro ako imaju dobre roditelje, da priroda djeteta i nije toliko važna i sl. Mothers and fathers are often uneasy and anxious about bringing up children. In the past, they looked up to grandmothers and other members of the previous generations for answers to their questions about child upbringing. Nowadays, they are usually ask some psychology or medicine specialists. People tend to romanticize and idealize motherhood to such an extent that much unnecessary anxiety and distress accompany the parental role for women. Fathers today are expected to be more involved in child rearing. The egalitarian ethic refers to the cultural belief that fathers and mothers should be equally responsible for their children. There are different parenting styles and strategies such as authoritarian, indifferent, democratic or permissive and all of them differently contribute the development of the child personality. While bringing up the children, one must try to be aware of their developmental readiness, that praises are more effective then punishments, not to put negative labels on anyone, particularly on a child is very destructive because it attacks the self-concept, family rules should be clear and constant, communication should be open and children should be let to decide for themselves as log as the consequences will not be physically or psychologically harmful. Myths that cloud reduces natural parents capacities are: brining up children is fun, children are sweet and cute, and children will turn out well if they have good parents, children improve marriage, and the nature of the child is not very important and other. |
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fthrcak:oai:hrcak.srce.hr:59248 2023-05-15T18:14:06+02:00 Roditeljstvo Parenthood Pernar, Mirjana; Department of clinical, medical and organizational psychology, CHC Rijeka, Rijeka, Croatia; mirjana.pernar@ri.t-com.hr 2010-09-13 pdf http://hrcak.srce.hr/59248 http://hrcak.srce.hr/file/89357 hr hrv Croatian Medical Association, Branch Rijeka; HLZRI@medri.hr http://hrcak.srce.hr/59248 http://hrcak.srce.hr/file/89357 Annual subscription fee in Croatia is 100 kn to be paid to the account No. 2360000-1400145092. Membership in the Croatian Medical Association -Rijeka Branch ensures regular receipt of Medicina for each year the membership is paid for. Inquiries relating to advertising, subscriptions, bulk orders, back issues, or reprints should be addressed to: Croatian Medical Association -Rijeka Branch, Trg Republike Hrvatske 2, 51000 Rijeka, Croatia.The Editor has full and final authority for approving advertisements and enforcing advertising policy Publishing of Medicina is supported by the City of Rijeka, Primorsko-goranska County, Croatian Medical Union- Branch of Rijeka and Croatian Ministry of Science, Education and Sports.Copyright 2008®. All rights reserved (including those of translation into foreign languages). The full text of articles published in Medicina can be used free of charge for personal and educational purposes while respecting authors' and publishers' copyrights. For commercial purposes no part of this journal may be reproduced or trasmitted in any form or by any means, electronic or mechanical, including photocopying, recording, or any information and retrieval system, without the written permission of the Publisher Medicina Fluminensis (HLZRI@medri.hr); Vol.46 No.3 egalitarna etika majčinstvo mitovi o roditeljstvu očinstvo roditeljstvo roditeljski stilovi egalitarian ethic fatherhood motherhood parenthood parenting myths parenting style text 2010 fthrcak 2012-10-27T15:20:34Z Majke i očevi često se osjećaju nesigurno i anksiozno kada je u pitanju odgoj djece. U prošlim vremenima odgovore na pitanja o tome kako treba odgajati djecu često su davale bake i drugi članovi iz te generacije. U današnje su vrijeme roditelji uglavnom usmjereni na specijaliste iz područja psihologije i medicine. Ljudi često imaju romantiziranu i idealiziranu sliku o majčinstvu koja u majkama proizvodi nepotrebnu anksioznost i distres. U današnje vrijeme od očeva se očekuju puno veća angažiranost u odgoju djece. Egalitarna etika odnosi se na kulturalno vjerovanje da očevi i majke trebaju biti jednako odgovorni za svoju djecu. Postoje različiti roditeljski stilovi i strategije kao što su to autoritativni, indiferentni, popustljivi i autoritarni. Svaki od ovih stilova roditeljstva na drugačiji način utječe na razvoj ličnosti djeteta. U odgoju djece dobro je da roditelji uzimaju u obzir djetetovu razvojnu spremnost, da su nagrade puno efikasnije od kazne, da se u razgovoru nikoga ne etiketira ružnim riječima, a pogotovo ne djecu jer je to vrlo destruktivno za njihovu sliku o sebi, da obiteljska pravila budu jasna i konstantna, da komunikacija bude otvorena i da se djeci dopušta da sami biraju sve do razine kada bi ih vlastiti izbor mogao fizički ili psihički ugroziti. Mitovi o roditeljstvu koji mogu reducirati prirodni roditeljski način govore, primjerice, o tome da je odgajanje djece zabavno, da će djeca ispasti dobro ako imaju dobre roditelje, da priroda djeteta i nije toliko važna i sl. Mothers and fathers are often uneasy and anxious about bringing up children. In the past, they looked up to grandmothers and other members of the previous generations for answers to their questions about child upbringing. Nowadays, they are usually ask some psychology or medicine specialists. People tend to romanticize and idealize motherhood to such an extent that much unnecessary anxiety and distress accompany the parental role for women. Fathers today are expected to be more involved in child rearing. The egalitarian ethic refers to the cultural belief that fathers and mothers should be equally responsible for their children. There are different parenting styles and strategies such as authoritarian, indifferent, democratic or permissive and all of them differently contribute the development of the child personality. While bringing up the children, one must try to be aware of their developmental readiness, that praises are more effective then punishments, not to put negative labels on anyone, particularly on a child is very destructive because it attacks the self-concept, family rules should be clear and constant, communication should be open and children should be let to decide for themselves as log as the consequences will not be physically or psychologically harmful. Myths that cloud reduces natural parents capacities are: brining up children is fun, children are sweet and cute, and children will turn out well if they have good parents, children improve marriage, and the nature of the child is not very important and other. Text sami sami Hrčak - Portal of scientific journals of Croatia |